Goodies with Grandparents: The Event That Stole Our Hearts

Plot twist: It turns out that grandparents are basically superheroes. (We know, shocking!) Our school campuses recently hosted “Goodies with Grandparents” events for Grandparents Day, and wow, did the love in those rooms hit different. But here’s something we want to talk about—why these connections are especially amazing for grandchildren on the autism spectrum.

Why Grandparents Are Actually the Best

Let’s be real: grandparents bring the good stuff. They’ve got the wisdom, the cookies, the stories, and endless patience. Across the U.S., roughly 2.7 million grandparents are stepping up as primary caregivers, giving parents a much-needed breather while their kids get showered with love and security.

But for grandparents raising grandchildren with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)? That’s a whole different adventure—one that deserves real support and understanding.

What Research Is Telling Us

Social workers and experts have been digging into this, and they’ve discovered something important: grandparents raising autistic grandchildren face unique challenges that deserve targeted help.

Through interviews, focus groups, and real-world research, professionals have found that while caregiving can be incredibly rewarding, these grandparents often juggle financial pressures, educational hurdles, and the challenge of finding resources.

The good news? Understanding these challenges helps us better support them!

Pro Tips for Awesome Grandparent-Grandchild Moments

Want to strengthen those bonds even more? Here are some game-changers:

Chat it out: Clear, open conversations about what to expect help everyone feel more comfortable and confident.

Follow their interests: Whether it’s art, gaming, hiking, or dinosaurs—lean into what lights them up! Shared joy = deeper connection.

Keep the vibe calm: Many autistic kids are sensitive to sensory stuff, so a peaceful, welcoming space makes all the difference.

Stick to a routine: Predictability is comforting! A regular schedule gives kids something to look forward to.

Bring the patience: Learning about autism helps grandparents approach these relationships with understanding and grace.

Find your thing: Shared hobbies and activities? They’re relationship gold.

The Bottom Line

The bond between grandparents and grandchildren is irreplaceable—especially when we’re building it with intention and understanding. When we support and celebrate these relationships, we’re weaving some pretty beautiful threads through our school community.